Showing posts with label goals. Show all posts
Showing posts with label goals. Show all posts

Wednesday, 17 August 2016

5 Mindset Secrets to Achieve Your Goals Faster

As humans, we are wired to want more, be more and achieve more. What we lose sight of is our incredible ability to rapidly manifest what we desire. As someone who helps entrepreneurs reach the next level of success in their businesses, teaching them the proper strategies is extremely important. The individuals, who make the biggest impacts, have, what I call, the "high performance mindset."
How would you feel knowing that if you followed a few simple steps, you could literally manifest anything you desired in any area of your life? Here’s what you need to do.

1. Get crystal clear on what you want.

So many people never achieve what they desire simply because they are never completely sure on what they actually want. In order to rapidly manifest your desires, you need to get clear on exactly what it is that you want. I’m not talking about broad goal setting here. I’m talking about being crystal clear on every detail associated with what you desire.

Ask yourself right now: Once you manifest what you desire, what will it specifically look like in your life? What will it feel like? How will it change your lifestyle? How will it affect the decisions you make? Be as specific as possible here.

2. Write what you want into existence.

This may seem like a lot of hard work, but trust me, it works.
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Sit down, and write out exactly what you want to manifest. The key with this is simple but powerful: You need to write out exactly what you desire as if it has already happened. The reasoning behind this is simple: Your unconscious mind does not know the difference behind dreams and realities. So, the faster than you can convince your subconscious that the desired result has already manifested, the faster it will show up in your reality.

Answering the following phrase helps: “I am so happy and grateful that _____.”
For example, if the goal is to manifest an additional $5,000 you would write, "I am so happy and grateful that I have received an additional $5,000."

3. Quit worrying about the “how.”

This is really important. Step No. 3 is the step that will make or break your manifestation. You need to let go of “how” what you desire will manifest. If you don’t, you won’t create the space for what you desire to show up in your life.

Related: 7 Apps to Help Integrate Tech With Self-Improvement Goals
We are naturally wired to plan and want everything to happen specifically to that plan; however, this limits everything to flow and click into your life.

The key is to focus on the end result, and be open to how it will manifest, rather than needing it to manifest in a specific way.

4. Create a massive emotional connection.

Every high performer knows and understands that the event with the highest emotional charge is what will show up in your life. You need to be tapping into an emotional peak state whenever you are thinking about what you desire to manifest.

Related: 6 Actions You Can Take Every Day to Build Your Self-Confidence
According to Regan Hillyer, author of Be Your Brand, when you are writing out your reality of exactly what you desire, allow yourself to tap into the feeling associated with achieving or receiving what you desire. Notice how good it feels. Double that feeling. Triple that feeling. Make a conscious effort to tap into that feeling as regularly as possible throughout the day.

Ensure that you are not consumed with negative thoughts and emotions throughout your day, otherwise, you will simply manifest more of them.

5. Obsess over it daily.

This last step is crucial. Once you are crystal clear about what you desire, you are writing it into existence. You have to let go of how it is going to happen, and you have to develope a strong emotional connection. You need to obsess about what you desire daily. Connecting emotionally with what you desire to manifest once a day isn’t going to cut it. You need to connect emotionally at least once an hour, during waking hours.

A great way to do this is to set an alarm for every hour that you are awake, and allow yourself to tap into the emotion of having already received what you desire. Then allow everything you desire to naturally show up in your life with ease.

Some of the insights here may seem rather unusual, but if you give them a try, I’m confident you’ll see great results.  Remember, having a high performance mindset simply takes time and consistency. I encourage you to try it for 30 days and see where it takes you. You're going to like the results.

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Tuesday, 16 August 2016

7 Tips to develop a personal growth mindset

Personal growth is essential for health, happiness, ambition and achievement. As a human being, you have amazing potential to continuously accept, and conquer, new challenges. There are few, if any, things which you cannot achieve, if you really want to achieve them. The key is that you want to achieve them enough to motivate you to take action. Many people hinder their own personal growth by refusing to take action. They come up with a myriad of excuses. If you do not want to be like them, you must develop a personal growth mindset. A personal growth mindset allows you to not only take on new challenges; you actively seek them out.  While some ‘experts’ might tell you that this kind of thing requires intense mental training, it generally doesn’t. All you really require is an open mind, a desire to try new things, and awareness that you can improve your performance with commitment and effort.

Adopting a personal growth mindset

As a kid, I was nervous and shy about accepting new challenges. I was worried about others judging me if my performance was not exceptional. This was a self-limiting attitude. I was restricting my own personal growth with ridiculous expectations. Someone with a personal growth mindset knows that they are unlikely to be good at new things immediately. They know that as long as they enjoy it; they can work hard at it until they improve. Ironically, in order to know if you will enjoy something, you have to try it first.
A number of years back, I decided that I was going to adopt a personal growth mindset. I regularly seek out new challenges and try them out for a while. If I enjoy them, I stick with them. My decision whether to stick with it has nothing to do with my performance; that can be improved. It is all about whether I enjoy it or not. This year’s big challenge has been to start my own website and take my business online. When I started, in April, I knew nothing about websites, SEO or online marketing. In the past, I would have considered this and decided against taking on the challenge.  However, with a personal growth mindset, I decided that this was too good of an opportunity to pass up. For the past 6 months, I have been researching, learning and experimenting and the results have surpassed anything I would have expected. I still only know a minute percentage of what there is to know but I am really enjoying the experience and I have identified a number of exciting new challenges for the next 6 months.  Without a personal growth mindset, I would have missed out on this opportunity and the happiness that it has brought.

Tips for developing a personal growth mindset

The following tips will help you to adopt a personal growth mindset:

1. Stop justifying everything

You do not need to justify everything that you do. When you adopt a new behaviour or hobby, your friends and family will ask you why you have done it. Remember that you do not need to offer any justification other than ‘because I want to!’

 2. Engage new people

Seek out and have conversations with people, and groups, whom you might not have spent time with previously. Approach these conversations with an open mind and you will learn new things and have your own views challenged.  This will help to freshen up your life and stimulate your creativity and sense of adventure.

 3. Allow yourself to dream

Every new adventure, or achievement, begins with a dream. Allow yourself to dream. Do not place limitations on these dreams. Your dreams are part of your creative self. If you embrace them, you will identify new opportunities for growth. When you identify these opportunities, try them out.

 4. Understand that you will never do your best

No matter what you do, there will always be opportunity for improvement. There are always opportunities to learn from your experiences and use the feedback to improve. Therefore, you can never do your best but you can do the best that you can at any given moment, with the knowledge and skill you possess at that time. When you understand and accept this, you realise that the judgements of others are irrelevant. You can take comfort that you did the best you could at that time and resolve to learn from the experience so that you may do better next time.

 5. Focus on the experience rather than the end result

There may be activities which you have avoided because you don’t feel that you would be any good at them.  Ask yourself ‘Does it really matter if I am not very good at it?’  The answer is ‘No’. You don’t need to be good at it, if you enjoy it. You are not looking for a record deal, a museum exhibition or a professional sports contract. You are simply looking for fun. If you focus on the experience rather than the end result, you will have a lot more fun and you might, unwittingly, find something which you are actually good at.

 6. Try one new thing everyday

If you commit to trying one new thing every day, you will have tried 365 new things in one year. The chances of finding something you like, enjoy or are good at are much higher. More importantly, you will quickly develop a personal growth mindset where you see challenges rather than problems, and you are unafraid to try new things.
Effective goal setting lies at the heart of a personal growth mindset. You can learn to set effective goals with the Ultimate Guide to Goal Setting.
 A personal growth mindset allows you take on new challenges, seeing only opportunities for fun and learning. There may still be tough times but when you have the right mindset, you are more resilient. You accept that things will go wrong but you focus on identifying a solution, implementing it and moving on. You know that you might fail at a task but that doesn’t make you a failure. In fact, it affords you a valuable opportunity to learn and improve.  With a personal growth mindset, you are happier, healthier and you have a zest for life. You become emotionally mature. Setbacks rarely faze you because you know that new opportunities lie just around the corner.

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